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Dec. 7th, 2009


[info]leonardodivinci in [info]adultpostsecret

why is it

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[info]raiden_x in [info]adultpostsecret

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[info]lokiiago in [info]bisexual_world

Jerk(in off)

The situation:

I'm with a male I plan to marry. But the issue is when I masturbate I feel and always have felt weird about imagining the person I'm with. It feels oddly disrespectful or like I'm manipulating them, or whatever it is it just doesn't feel right. The next problem is that I've never in my life had a successful masturbatory experience when imagining/seeing videos or pictures of men. They just don't do it for me (part of the reason I hesitated saying I was bi for so long, I may love and have sex with a guy but just their junk alone doesn't get me off like it does with like Playboy or something). Also let me clarify, I don't masturbate to anyone I know personally. I'm talking models, magazines, that sort of thing.

So I have two problems.

1. Can I masturbate if I don't imagine him?
2. Can I masturbate picturing/seeing girls?

We've talked about it and he says it's fine if I watch porn but that doesn't quite answer my question specifically enough.

The question:

Do you guys/gals think it's okay to masturbate about the gender opposite the one you're dating? I feel it's better than cheating; it lets me get out my wanting of girls in a way that's not harmful...but is it harmful? Is it bad to masturbate about people who aren't your romantic associate?





Poll #1495599 Is it wrong?
Open to: All, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 46

Is it okay to masturbate to images of people who you are not dating?

View Answers

If they're celebrities or models you don't know
6 (13.0%)

No
4 (8.7%)

Yes, always
30 (65.2%)

Yes, if you've discussed it
3 (6.5%)

Other (will specify)
3 (6.5%)

Dec. 6th, 2009


[info]biblock in [info]bisexual_world

Repression

What would you do if your partner encouraged you to identify as gay/straight?

Assuming that the relationship was great otherwise, but your partner was unhappy that you identified as bi ("It worries me that you still say you're attracted to men and women...can't you just say you're [gay/straight] since you're with me? Other people you're attracted to don't matter!"), would you outwardly change your identity to make your partner more comfortable?

Why or why not? =D

Dec. 5th, 2009


[info]bialogue in [info]bisexual_world

[LGBT Youth]: Just Not Quite Gay Enough

In the 8th grade, I 'came out' as gay when I professed my love for Billy . . . in the 10th grade, I discovered that I was also into the female form . . . in senior year I 'came out' (again), this time as bisexual )


Click here to learn about Campus Pride and its wide variety of services for LGBT & Allied Student Leaders and Campus Organizations )


Dec. 4th, 2009


[info]chelseavision in [info]exhibitionists

(no subject)

Brr it's a cold rainy day here! There's no better place to be on a cold day than in a hot bath :)

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Dec. 2nd, 2009


[info]aylara in [info]bisexual_world

So...

Anyone have the experience of sleeping with someone, and then later find out that said person in fact had no idea how STDs were actually transmitted?

It's not exactly on my list of questions for potential partners!

[info]alreadythere21

Guess who ;)

If there is someone on your friends list you would like to take, strip naked, tie them to a bed post, lick them until they scream, then fuck them until both of you are senseless and unable to fuck anymore, then wait about five minutes and do it all over again, then post this exact sentence in *your* journal.

(p.s: Hate this thing... its kind of like who doesnt think about fucking one of their lj friends after looking at naked pictures they posted. lol But anyways, 5 people on my friends list posted and it made me feel like I should as well too.)

(p.p.s: miss you all)

(oxoxoxoxoxo)

[info]biblock in [info]bisexual_world

Coming out to partner

How important is it to come out to a potential partner?

Let me set the cheesy scene for you! )

[info]defrost79 in [info]sex_fiends

(no subject)

For anyone in or around Phoenix, AZ

http://community.livejournal.com/cheatingphoenix/profile

Dec. 1st, 2009


[info]theadulteress in [info]sexjournals

Cherry

I was thinking that today was going to be another wash-out. 54 was supposed to meet me over lunch (he'd been making dark hints about elevators), and hence I had put on a skirt and boots and claimed to him that I wasn't wearing panties (a lie- it's cold out there!), but it didn't work out because he got stuck in a meeting with his boss to discuss the trip to Copenhagen, and didn't come out until 5 minutes before I went back to work.

However, after a succession of texts, we arranged to meet after work. He was actually working late, until 10 p.m., but he could take a break.

Of course, the conference I was working at then ran late, so he was hanging around the back of the (closed) bar inside the building waiting for me. Once my meeting had ended, I gathered my stuff together, went to the bathroom and took my panties off, and shot down two floors to meet him, sitting in the dark round the side of the bar where nobody could see him. He looked at me, somewhat pissed off because I was late, but understanding that it wasn't my fault.

"The second office on the right. I've unlocked the door" he said. I nodded, walked on past. Went around the corner, round another corner, walked to the office, opened it, fearing that... somehow... somebody would be in there.

Nobody. And huge bay windows looking out on the grounds of the park. Oh, yessss...

I dropped my bag and coat on a desk. He came in behind me, grinned, and said he had to lock the door. I watched him, then turned around, walked over to the desk next to where I'd put my things. Sat on it, lifted my skirt up slightly. He came over to me, kissed me hard. Leant back, and we grinned at each other. He lifted my skirt up, slid a hand under, felt my thighs- touched my bare pussy. I wasn't wet a minute ago when I was in the bathroom. Now? I don't know. But when he stops and leans back a second, I reach under and touch myself. Wet, yes. Not dripping, but my clit is already slippery. He bites my neck.

I stroke myself for a mere couple of seconds before he leans in and kisses me again, harder, and, without breaking the kiss, starts to undo his belt and pants. I angle my hips forward on the desk, moving up to the edge. He gets his cock out, but has to break off, as he's got so much strapped to his hips (16 pounds worth of equipment, he tells me), that it's making things really awkward.

Not enough to make much of a difference, however, we're both determined. He pulls me forward, I attempt to wrap my legs around his hips but my knee-high boots are making it damn awkward, so I don't and just cock them up around his ears. He reaches between us, grabs himself, aims... and it won't go all the way in, the position is all wrong, but he gets some of it in and fucks me. I can barely feel him inside me.

I am leaning my torso back, my weight on my wrists, and he is bending over the table, kissing me to keep me quiet as he likes to do, and I'm trying to angle myself better so that he can get inside me properly. My left leg snags on something- I think it's his radio, and immediately think "Fuck, turning it on by kicking it would be really fucking stupid!", so I lift my leg away in a hurry.

He pushes into me, and he comes. It can't have been more than two minutes since he got into me.

I don't mind- this was more for kicks than for anything else. I've finally lost my this-workplace virginity, and I'm amused as hell. Besides, I knew what I was in line for- this, as I explained by text to a dear friend and blog reader a few minutes later (as I simply had to crow about it to somebody instantly!) is why I always blow him for his first orgasm. So that he can come as fast as he needs to... and then we can get on with the actual fun and fucking.

My first thought is that he better pull out before he gets come and wet smeared on his pants, but he stays in me a moment, moving a bit more, then I reach down between us. He slides out of me, still semi-hard, and I hold him in my hand until he steps back and I lick my fingers and palm clean.

He starts to readjust his clothing- at which point I realise that my leg had actually snagged his holster, and somehow I'd managed to open it. His gun gleams dully in the semi-dark, and I'm grinning again.

He puts himself back together. I just pull my skirt back down. He asks me about my bruises, and I tell him that they're OK, very green. I can't show him- it's too dark, which is disappointing. He asks if my husband has noticed, and I reassure him that no, he hasn't. He smiles disbelievingly, kisses me- bites my tongue hard. I pick up my bag. As we walk to the door, he reaches between my legs and pinches my mound hard. I tell him that's also still sore from last week.

He goes out first. I walk out about 20 seconds later. There's nobody along this stretch of the building at this time, we're OK. He heads across the hallway, up an escalator, me behind. He walks out, greets a few people hanging around outside smoking. I come up behind, we say Hi, he walks me across the carpark and up the side of the security arrangements, muttering about how he really wants to fuck me again right here, but there are cameras everywhere... He pinches my chin a second, and I laugh. There's nobody around- we have a concrete wall on one side, bamboo on the other.

We stop, say Goodnight, standing well apart.

I walk off to catch a train home, feeling my panties squelch between my thighs. When I get home, after kissing my husband, I go to the bathroom and take them down. There are blobs of still-wet come on the crotch.

Nov. 30th, 2009


[info]biblock in [info]bisexual_world

Another myth!

Can you separate love and sex?

I know it's a very personal question, and I hope no one feels obligated to answer here, but it's a popular myth: That bisexuals can happily have sex with men and women, but can only have romantic feelings for one gender.

Details, deatils. )

[info]bialogue in [info]bisexual_world

[Boston MA USA]: New Phelps-A-Thon

Fred Phelps and his 'God Hates Fags' Westboro Baptist Church are planning at least 4 pickets on Tuesday, December 1st 2009: World AIDS Day in Boston MA . . . but there is a plan to turn the tables on them! )
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[info]rndgrnr in [info]erotic_writing

Shower with a New Friend, Part 2

(Continued from here).

"Hands up, now," she ordered severely, even as an impish smile betrayed her tone, "and face the wall, while you're at it," she added.

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Nov. 29th, 2009


[info]lostboy_angel in [info]bisexual_world

Angel Here, sayin hello

Hey Everyone,

My name is ANGeL, from Suriname. Just in case you don't know where that is, well, it's in South America, north of Brazil. Now, coming from a slightly homophobic place, I had quite some trouble coming to terms with my sexuality. Luckily, my friends have been pretty supportive; of course I'm not fully out yet. Anyway, I'm very happy to be bi; keeps my life interesting. With that said, I think nuff about me for now.

I'd like to get to know people who are just like me, sharing similar problems perhaps, although it's not limited to just problems. Feel free to talk to me about anything! I would love to make some new friends!


~XoXo~
ANGeL

[info]gather_rosebuds in [info]masturbationto

(no subject)

Hey y'all! I set this journal up for cybersex adventures a couple of years ago, and then forgot about it completely. But I found it again, and I've decided to see if I can't turn it into a bit of a business venture. If you want me to write you some custom erotica, PM me with the details of the scenario you'd like, and I'll send you a bit of short fiction. My paypal button is on my profile, so if you could donate something to my "paying the rent" fund, I'd appreciate it. Note: I will not write about children, animals, watersports, scat, or bloodplay. Everything else is a "soft limit," so I'll do my best to write a scenario including all the details you've given me. I'll probably be posting this around a bit, so if you see this announcement more than once, forgive me.

[info]loststjude in [info]bisexual_world

My "Hi This is Me!" Post

Hello All!

I'm brand spanking new to this community and have been reading posts for a few days and feel like I'm going to enjoy this group a lot!

My Story... )

Needless to say I'm very confused and scared but find comfort in this community and truly and glad that I have found you. I feel like I'm a 23 year old going threw things that I should have come to terms and acknowledged when I was 13. But alas here I am. Struggling with my sexuality.

Thank You For Being Here

Nov. 28th, 2009


[info]lokiiago in [info]bisexual_world

Take Two?

Okay since my last post about crushes seemed to upset people I am determined to post about something we can all enjoy! Celebrity crushes?

Maybe post pics or talk about stars/starlets you find cute?

For me it'd be these (not in any order):

Noel Fielding
Lady GaGa
Christoph Waltz
Carla Gugino


See Pics! )


So how about you gals and guys? Any hot celebs out there? :)

Nov. 27th, 2009


[info]pushingarock in [info]bisexual_world

Intro/Unloading

Greetings, all.
I've been watching this comm for about a month now and after reading some of the recent introductions and questions, I've finally been convinced to make a post and introduce myself and my conundrums.

me and my issues )
Um... yep. Anyway, that's me. Hope I haven't offended anyone.
Peace.

[info]ready2please in [info]masturbationto

Thanksgiving Masturbation Extravaganza

I had company over the Thanksgiving holiday. Our company arrived Wednesday afternoon and they were here when I got home from work. They left late Friday afternoon.

I was sure that I would go from Sunday to Friday or Saturday without having an orgasm. That is five or six days. That would be a tragedy in my book. I didn’t play with myself Monday because I had more minor surgery Monday after work, and I was too tired Tuesday night and then we had a house full of people after that.

I was quite happy to be wrong. I managed to have four lengthy play sessions while I had three extra people in my home.

On Thanksgiving morning my husband and one of our guests were going out running. That left me in the house with the other two people. I thought they had gotten up and gone downstairs so I lay in bed and masturbated for almost an hour. I came so many times and I was as quiet as can be because the living room is under the master bedroom.

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